Pls do not reblog anything with the old disability pride flag, it does cause seizure and migraines, please use the new one which was created by the same person with the feedbacks of many other disabled people.
This is the safe one:
ALT
Dont use the zigzag one, your making disabled space inaccessible for a part of the community.
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There’s something about Malenias hair in the cinematic that makes my heart go fucking batshit. Every aspect about her is so cool and beautiful to me, but there’s something about soft, wavy LONG hair that makes me go absolutely fucking feral. I WANT to run my fingers though it and it’s illegal I CAN’T
If you use phrases like “narcissist”, “psychopath”, “sociopath”, “narcissistic abuse”, “crazy”, “insane” or any similar language to describe asshole behavior, manipulative behavior, or otherwise undesirable behavior.
I’m kicking you out if disability pride month.
We don’t support lateral abelism during disability pride month. We’re not demonizing real disabled people with real mental health conditions to support your narrative.
It’s really easy to say “The dude is an asshole that doesn’t give a shit about anyone but himself” without forcing abelist language that hurts real disabled people onto him.
(Especially because the disorders that these conditions attack are often cluster b personality disorders which are often caused by trauma)
-fae
Someone responded to this essentially saying “You’re taking language away from abuse victims to describe what they went through.”
And since they deleted it before I got to respond. I’m going to assume they later realized that was abelist.
But contrary to what they said. Terms like “narcissistic abuse” takes language away from abuse victims to describe what they’re going through.
A lot of victims of verbal and emotional abuse are gaslit because terms like “verbal abuse” and “emotional abuse” aren’t normalized enough. Shit, I gaslit myself for a long time because “it wasn’t physical”.
You’d do much better for the entire abuse victim community if you normalized language of actual abuse rather than demonize Cluster B Personality Disorders whom are often also the victims of abuse. Having Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder doesn’t inherently make someone an abuser. Being an abusive asshole makes them abusive.
you can instantly make a cool female character if you just take any stereotypically masculine character type and make him a butch lady. easiest trick in the book. you can try this at home
im not talking even about broad scale archetypes like Action Hero. those are cool don’t get me wrong but if you take more specific stock characters such as “cartoonish mob boss” or “gentleman detective” or “elderly mad scientist” then you have an instant hit on your hands. lesbians WILL love you forever and you WILL be the most interesting person around
I never watched the pony show but I really enjoy what you folks are doing with those horses these days. Just today, I saw an image of the yellow one smoking a bong and wearing a “nine inch nails” tee shirt.
is this true?
Like a rare and beautiful spirit…I hope to see it again
ALT
